Once again, my 5 minute Friday is more like a 5 minute Saturday. . .but I promised myself I would do this and I don't want to let myself down!! I need to show up. . .for myself. Which is the perfect tie-in to Lisa Jo's word this week- Present
Last month, my Dad turned the big 6-0, and my sister's ministry turned three years old. Since she was back stateside visiting, the fam decided to throw a huge part-ay to celebrate. It was so wonderful. There we were, in my parent's backyard, in our childhood home, with live music, home cooked food, home brewed beer and decades and decades of people who showed up to celebrate. So many friends and family, from so many phases of all of our lives were present to celebrate my dad's big day and honor my sister's amazing work. At the end of the night, our heads were all spinning from the number of people who were there. . .the hugs, the laughs, the conversations. . .we'll be reliving it for years. At one point I thought to myself, I feel so bad! So many people came and I didn't have the time to talk to each one. But in reality, that wasn't the point, and it wasn't why they came at all. They came to be present, so show their faces and their smiles and share the meal and support the ministry and their mere presence alone was their symbol of love. Presence. It is the greatest gift we give our friends and family. We keep showing up, year after year, at the birthday parties, baby showers, housewarmings, hospitals, funerals, on the doorstep with casseroles, on the phone with a listening ear, on the couch for a cry or a good laugh. It takes love to show up for people, and it is the best way you can express to them your own caring. I'm here for you. Physically present, emotionally present, spiritually present. . .and that's the greatest present. Thanks for the present, friends. It was the best kind!!